. In a world where chance encounters often lead to lifelong connections, the story of David Suntharesan and CJ Valencia stands out as a testament to the power of destiny. Introduced by a mutual friend in 2020, their journey from acquaintances to soulmates is nothing short of a modern-day fairy tale.
CJ, with her strong, independent spirit, found in David a partner who not only respected her autonomy but also provided a safe space for her vulnerabilities. David, on the other hand, knew from the start that CJ was ‘the one.’ “It wasn’t love at first sight for her, but I felt differently,” he recalls with a laugh.
The Decision to Marry: A Mutual Vision
For David and CJ, dating was not a casual affair. From the onset, they were clear about their intentions – to find a lifelong partner. This shared vision was the cornerstone of their relationship, with both understanding the gravity and beauty of their commitment. “He’s THE answered prayer,” CJ fondly notes.
The Perfect Proposal: A Change of Plans
David’s original plan to propose in Japan took a detour when CJ chose to attend a Taylor Swift concert in Singapore. Adapting to this change, David meticulously organized a proposal at a picturesque Airbnb villa. The involvement of CJ’s closest friends, coupled with numerous late-night Zoom sessions, ensured that the proposal would be unforgettable.
The day itself was not without its humorous mishaps– from a Spotify commercial interrupting the background music to an upside-down ring box. These quirks only added to the charm of the proposal, making it a perfect reflection of their journey together.
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A Dream Come True: CJ’s Perspective
For CJ, the proposal was like a scene from her favorite romantic movies. “It was my ideal marriage proposal– by the beach, surrounded by roses, candles, and the most breathtaking sunset,” she describes. The unexpected rain that followed only added to the magic, as they danced the night away, celebrating their love.
Advice for the Guys: Planning The Proposal
David offers a sage advice for men planning to propose. He exhorts men to understand the sanctity of marriage and make the proposal a reflection of their partner’s dreams. “It’s a once-in-a-lifetime moment. So give it your all,” he advises.
A Union Blessed by Love
David and CJ’s story is a reminder that love can blossom into a beautiful, lifelong partnership. It needs to be nurtured with intention and respect. Their journey has been marked by mutual understanding and deep respect. Theire shared vision for the future is an inspiration to couples everywhere. As they prepare to embark on their new life together, their love story stands as a beacon of hope and a testament to the enduring power of love.
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